Following up on yesterday’s Procrastination post…
Clearly, it’s not that the Oscar winning screen writer David Seidler or my ER-doctor-at-age-65 friend were negligent earlier in life. They were late bloomers because both had HUGE life circumstances to tackle before spinning the PATH to other dreams.
So often we think of procrastination as being lazy. Let’s just put an end to that, shall we?
Procrastination is about not having a clear PATH to the top of the mountain. That lack of vision creates a discomfort that forces our focus away from our ultimate goal. Lack of clarity instills fear as well as distraction – fear of failure AND fear of success. Change is hard, so a dream come true, as special as it might seem, can also seem pretty darn scary.
So, unless we have a clear plan, when we’re overwhelmed we instead turn to a lesser peak that has an obvious, assured and satisfying end. After all, we need to finish the day feeling accomplished.
“Vision without Action is a dream. Action without Vision is simply passing the time. Action with Vision is making a positive difference.” — Joel Barker, futurist and scholar.
Once we have keenly mapped our vision the PATH is clear and off we go. It’s that simple. We’re BUSY, people! And our passion will get us where we’re going, eventually. It is my belief that all those smaller peaks lead to the epic summit. All forward motion preps us for the end in mind. It’s important to forgive yourself along the way, rather than brow-beat for veering off the main road, for passing time.
One way to clear the PATH is to know your resources. You don’t always have to figure it out on your own. It’s my contention that most people don’t realize all the powerful resources at their fingertips both in the workplace and in the community. Know your benefits; that’s all I’m saying.
By way of example, the ER doc? Her husband worked for Ford Motor Company and she was able to go to school on a Ford tuition grant. Her membership to the fitness center where I worked was paid for by her hospital employee wellness program. And her complete confidence in treating gunshot victims high on crack? Chalk that up to a mentor program in her medical school, and 20 years of being a mom.
If you want to reach your goal, a little procrastination is inevitable. Overcoming it requires a re-focus on passion and vision, and a clear, determined map to the next steps. Ask yourself, when you get stuck, who (and what) can help you map it out?
“For I dipped into the future, far as human eye could see, Saw the vision of the world, and all the wonder that would be.” — Alfred Lord Tennyson
Let us know how you overcome moments of procrastination.
See you on the PATH Ahead!